A week ago I went to Ananda Ashram in Monroe, NY for an ‘Earth Day Weekend’. My friend Jerri helps out there, and one of the activities was a ceremony to bless the newly-planted garden. As part of the ceremony, we were handed ribbons of four different colors, corresponding to the four compass directions. We were asked to write an intent on each ribbon and then tie them to wooden loops that hung on the fence surrounding the garden.

Photo credit: Ananda Harvest
When I was in Asia for the holidays, I saw strings of pearl-like orbs floating in Singapore’s Marina Bay. One of our cab drivers explained that leading up to the new year, there were spots all over the city where you could scrawl your wishes using permanent marker onto the inflatable plastic balls.

Last fall, I was at an exhibition at the New Museum for Brazilian artist Rivane Neuenschwander. An installation on the ground floor called I Wish Your Wish featured a wall of colorful satin ribbons, each with a different wish printed on it. The wishes were written by those who visited the exhibit in a previous city, and visitors to the New Museum were asked to take a ribbon and replace it with their own written wish. A handful of these wishes would then be reprinted onto ribbons for the next city.

Photo credit: The New Museum
The installation was inspired by the wish ribbons tied to the gates of Nosso Senhor do Bonfim church in Brazil:

Photo credit: Leonardo Rivello
Though there are various superstitions around the exact protocol for making wishes using the ribbons, the general idea is that you take a ribbon, tie it around your wrist, and when the ribbon falls off by itself due to normal wear, your wish comes true. Some wish ribbons stay on for months, even years. Due to my severely inadequate knot-tying abilities, my ribbon from the Neuenschwander exhibit fell off in a matter of days. I’ve held onto it though, and it sits on top of my dresser as a reminder.

And this post wouldn’t be complete without mentioning the ema and other wishmaking devices I saw at every temple I went to in Japan.

These wishmaking gestures take internal desire—humanness in its rawest form—and externalizes it for everyone else to see. Sometimes it’s explicit, in the case of writing it down and tying it to a fence, and other times implicit, by offloading the wish psychologically into an object, like a ribbon you wear on your wrist. Private becomes public. Personal becomes anonymous. Wish becomes spectacle.
We have our own forms of wish-to-spectacle, like water fountains littered with coins. Yet I can’t help but wonder why these displays found in other cultures seem more… colorful. Maybe it’s more colorful simply because it’s unfamiliar. Colorful because it’s novel. Or maybe these rituals spring from more-collectivist cultures. Do we make resolutions instead of wishes because we have a stronger sense of individual agency? I don’t know.
What I do know is that every time I see something like this in person, I have a oh-we’re-not-alone kind of moment. Each ribbon, plaque or hole where a ribbon used to be holds a story about another real, live human being. To read these wishes one by one is to take minute-long jaunts back in time, to stand next to their authors and watch them participate in a common ritual. To see these wishes together as a whole is to experience the same stories layered on top of each other. Different people, different time, similar experience. It’s like seeing the world in 4D.
Do you know of other examples where wish becomes spectacle?